To certain guys who like fat women, or, The Internet FA 

theorangemage:

Oh, you’re different than normal guys, open-minded, and progressive? A good guy?

Tell me more about how your ideal kind of woman is shorter than you, hourglass or pear-shaped, rarely short-haired, and by most standards a very traditionally attractive woman plus a hundred or more pounds.

Tell me more about how the BBW paysites cater to and reinforce this mindset.

Tell me about how gross and unattractive you think that tall, apple-shaped girl with the strong, toned legs and wide shoulders looks, and how you erase her womanhood by comparing her body type to a man’s.

Tell me more about how you put down skinny women because they aren’t sexually or aesthetically attractive to you.

Tell me more about how you treat fat women on the Internet as a potential source of pictures for fap material.

Tell me more about all the erotic stories involving weight gain you love to read, all the paysite ladies who often play up the idea of feeding/weight gain for your money and pleasure, and how much you love that your thin girlfriend has put on ten pounds and now has a pot belly.

Tell me about how those things don’t mean you’re a feeder.

Oh, also tell me about how your girlfriend doesn’t know you prefer fat women.

And you, older guy in the back, tell us about how you try to get with fat women 20+ years younger than you, but neglect to mention your wife to them, or vice versa.

And you, the kind of guy who hangs out at LTC or BBW-chan or wherever who “love fat chicks” but then become like every other fat-hating asshole once a woman over a certain size shows up. I don’t even get this kind of thing.

Tell me your behavior isn’t problematic as fuck. I fucking dare you.

Get out of your closet. And the fridge, too. Stop being a creepy shady Internet FA.


tagged as: #rant #fat #fat admirer #FA #bbw #ssbbw #feeder #feedism


saminal:

holy crap

HEY FAT ADMIRERS
IF YOU’RE OFFENDED BY BEING CALLED A PERVERT BY A FAT CHICK
YOU ARE MISSING THE WHOLE POINT

SHE’S ALLOWED TO DISLIKE YOUR BEHAVIOUR
BECAUSE IT IS YOUR BEHAVIOUR TOWARDS HER

secondly

FAT CHICKS ARE ALLOWED TO TALK ABOUT THE WAYS FAT CHICKS ARE TREATED

IT’S NOT APPROPRIATIVE
IT’S NOT SUPREMACIST
IT’S NOT PRIVILEGED

IT’S FAT CHICKS BEING ANGRY ABOUT THE WAY SOME PEOPLE TREAT FAT CHICKS

and all of a sudden I feel better <3




Oh hey look, it&#8217;s my face. It wants cheeky kisses and food stuffed in it. :3

Oh hey look, it’s my face. It wants cheeky kisses and food stuffed in it. :3

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tagged as: #feedee #FA #personal

Latest Blog Post: Non-Negotiables 

murphmanfa:

jennylewren:

Latest Blog Post: Non-Negotiables

My first car was a maroon 93′ Chevy Cavalier that my friends dubbed “The Stallion.” My love for that car ran incredibly deep as it never died on me, never stalled, never broke down and always got me where I needed to go. I didn’t take care of it nearly as well as I should have and despite that fact, it never betrayed me. I was spoiled from the start. I assumed that every car would behave this well.
My first date was when I was 14. I don’t know where or why my infatuation with AJ began, but I had it bad. I was going into my sophomore year of High School, and he had already graduated. I knew that I only had one real chance, so at the end of the summer, I approached him and meekly asked him out. I can’t imagine what I would ever do in that situation, but he handled me in a brilliant fashion. We went to the movies. He picked me up, dressed nicely, wore cologne, and paid. The movie was mediocre, we sat in the very back row (it was his favorite place to sit for the best view,) and he had been exhausted from a late night before this. But I was happy and it was nice. Shortly thereafter he left for college and explained that even though we can’t ever date, we’ll always be friends. He could have crushed me and yet he didn’t. Much like with my first car, my first date left me spoiled. At 14 or 15, I assumed that every man would behave this well.

This is an outstanding piece and absolutely worth a read.  Related directly to fat sex stuff and particular fetishes, but the message applies to far, far more than just that.

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Completely agreeing with Murph here. It’s a little long, but her words flow so elegantly and they are so completely true. Raw and honest…it seems to be her style. And it’s amazing.